Chapter 12 - THE LETTER FROM MY DEAD WIFE
Henrietta called.
“Come over.”
“What happened?”
“I found something.”
That phrase had become dangerous in our family.
She handed me a metal storage box.
Inside were photographs.
Documents.
Then an envelope.
For Gregory.
Beatrice’s handwriting.
My throat closed.
“I didn’t know it was here,” Henrietta said.
The box had been misplaced after Beatrice died.
I opened the letter.
Greg,
If you are reading this, I am probably gone, which gives me the unfair advantage of giving advice you cannot argue with.
I laughed through tears.
That was Beatrice.
Then:
Please do not turn Matilda into a memorial project.
She is not here to preserve me.
Let her love other people. Let yourself love someone else. Grief is not proof of loyalty.
Pamela.
I almost stopped.
Then continued.
But remember this: anyone who loves you and resents Matilda does not love the whole of you.
I could barely read.
There is no version of your future in which she becomes negotiable.
Henrietta sat beside me.
The next paragraph was about the beach house.
It belongs to Matilda because I want her to have one thing that does not depend on anyone’s feelings toward her. Not yours. Not mine. Not some future spouse’s. Hers.
Then Beatrice made a joke about Matilda selling it at twenty-five to buy a terrible sports car.
I laughed and cried at the same time.
Finally:
And Greg, if you ever make a mistake because you are lonely, do not spend the rest of your life punishing yourself for wanting to be loved.
Just become wiser about what love looks like.
B.
I folded the letter.
Then cried harder than I had since she died.
Not because it absolved me.
It didn’t.
I had ignored things.
Allowed Pamela to frame conversations about Matilda.
Let grief make me doubt myself.
But wanting companionship did not make me responsible for Pamela’s choices.
That distinction changed something.
My job was not to rewrite the past until I became innocent of every mistake.
My job was to learn.
For the next few years, though, I became almost too determined to learn.
I didn’t date.
Not once.
Eventually Dr. Keene called me out.
“You’re afraid of your own judgment.”
She was right.
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And then a woman named Celia Ortiz walked into a school volunteer event.
I had no idea she would become part of the answer.
